Numerous Fords trannies like the FWD Taurus and famous CD4E family, Mazda's miserable FWD 6 and 626 trannies, old TH700's, Dodge/Eagle FWD ZF's......are just some of the well none "blow on demand" transmissions. I could go on and include some HondAcura units, Kia/Hyundai units.........which are beginning to get their own reputation.
And, get a job at a dealership or tranny shop. Many OEM trannies suck, have numerous TSBs, hardware/software updates, and seem to always be updated with each new year model release.
I personally don't care if you want to maintain your tranny or not. But, when it fails, just remember that I'll be laughing last.
IMO, its not neurotic when you've own some lemon transmissions that lasted 200k-300k miles with simple maintenance via an ATF drainplug, especially when there are so many people complaining about shift quality or problems with their transmissions.
Or, you can just do what this thread starter did, wait until its "screwy". I don't wait for "screwy" shifts to schedule my maintenance.