Time to look for a truck scale nearby. Lots of unknowns and guesses at this point. The actual weight of the boat and trailer isn't a known if they haven't been scaled. You may have ballparks based on manufacturer data, but nothing beats actually scaling it.
That being said, having some estimate of just tongue weight is better than nothing - and now is the time to make sure that trailer is set up properly.
If there is a CAT sale in the neighborhood, you can set up their mobile app and do it all without having to into the truck stop to get your tickets...