I will never deny that people with older, less than optitmally cared for cars, can expeience oil leaks when changing to any oil with much better cleaning properties and MUCH better flow properties. It just stands to reason - but this really has nothing to do with "seal conditioning" and everything to do with age and oil properties.
To throw another loop out there - sometimes these leaks can be fixed with AutoRx, which has some positive effects on seals. But if a seal is truly toast, well that's that and a real limitation of shaft-polymer seal technology.