Originally Posted By: Footpounds
Speaking of annoyances... it bugs me when someone in real life says to me, "can I ask you a question?" That irritates me....the person is asking me a question to see if they can ask me a question? My reply is usually, "you just did".
OK, so they should say something like, "Do you have time to help me with an issue" or something similar?
I just look at it as I'm happy they are asking if they can engage me, rather than doing what most do, which is machine gunning the question at me.
So sure, if you want to get technical, they asked you a question about asking a question. However, in context, they are attempting to be polite and see if it's a good time for what is likely a more complex question.
I tend to ask that or something similar because I know the irritation of someone just ambushing me with a question, rather than asking if it's a good time to go deeper into an issue.