First, I should have welcomed you to the site. You've stepped into a demention that few survive with any sanity or clarity!
As for your question, Well, that depends ...
on the mechanical health of the engine including cooling system, fuel system, lube system, previous mistakes like overheating, etc., etc.
on how you drive it (short, long, medium trips, hard, easy ...)
on the time of year (weather conditions)
on the loctation of operation (high dust areas, high sea moisture, yada, yada, yada ...)
It's difficult to give you an answer when we know nothing of the operating conditions. For example, I run Rotella in my Duramax, but also my Kubota. I don't use one maintenance schedule to predict the other. Each operates in it's own environment, under different conditions.
Your comment of "not looking to max the oil just extend" makes me wonder just how many miles are you doing now? And how far is "extend"ing without "max"ing?
So, at the risk of being a smart-@$$, I'll suggest you run it to Toyota's recommended OCI limit (regular or severe, your choice), then do a used oil analysis with TBN.
If you don't want a generic asnwer, don't ask a generic question. As Jerry McGuire said in the movie "HELP ME HELP YOU!"