Like many others on here, I usually run my tires 5 to 10 lbs above the manufacturers recommendations. No, they never wear out early in the center. Crisp handling is assured, gas mileage improvements are small but measurable. When towing, tail-wag is great reduced or eliminated by running the tires near the top of their sidewall rating.
Yeah, the nut behind the wheel is the biggest controller of gas mileage. Looking further ahead and letting off the accelerator much earlier as you approach a red light will:
Reduce your fuel consumption
Increase your brake life
Make you a safer driver, especially in snow or when towing
Not change your average speed at all..... remember the light is red!! Why do all the idiots.... most everybody.... continue to power all the way to a red light, brake hard to a stop.... just in time to see it turn green??
Of course, vehicle selection is most important.... assuming you are ready to trade anyway.
Since I am heavily involved in team towing.... and I always tow the heaviest boat on our team, we often record mileage as we fill all the vehicles at one time.
Towing 5,000 lbs, our Suburban will average 9 mpg, our 4wd F150 can get 11, a 2wd chevy pickup gets 12, and a minivan gets 18.