I got the Excel-GR made in Japan shocks and replaced the boots retaining the rest of the hardware like mounts etc. I replaced it with 140K on the odometer on my Highlander.
I have bought the same for my Maxima and they lasted very very very well compared to junk Nissan OEM stuff.
One the price was less $105 vs $190 wrt Toyota brand and also the OEM shock had a larger piston and much heavier compared to the KYB's. That was quite obvious but I installed the KYBs anyway thinking technology has changed to have smaller pistons over the past decade. Also, the SUV is like a tank unlike anything I have driven, my car seems much forgiving on bumps, the replay on the SUV is quite obvious.
The ride is so soft my kids are getting nauseated in the back of the vehicle.
Tire rack has asked me to send the pictures of the sway bar bushings which I will do to determine the problem.
It sucks to spend 2 days on this and get a soft ride, replacing the fronts was a breeze, the rears, OMG it was a PITA.