I'd say downunder we see a lot more heat consistently than much of the USA (Yeah I know death valley holds the hottest day record etc).
Facts are we don't get snow and commonly haul in ambients well above 100F day in and day out for 12 - 18 hours a day, with heavy loads.
I modded my 2004 f 250 7.3 psd, to include the usual transmission deep pan for 3 quarts extra trans fluid, as well as an after market oil cooler and filter.
In addition - I added 55 gals of freshwater in two stainless steel tanks (one in the bed and one underneath) which are plummed to a 12 v deckwash pump from a boat shop - to two garden misters (sprinklers) out front of the grill, which via a switch on the dash shoots water thru the 7 radiators out front of the engine on uphill grades.
I watch the EGT Pyro gauge, and when it's pulling 550C I know it's time for some water out front so the dashboard switch goes on.
I see the trans temps always stay below 70, and egt's never above 550, ---- I can feel the air conditioner drop 5 or 10 degrees when i hit that water switch and watch the egt's drop.
It works a treat - I can go thru 50 odd gallons of water over a 10 hour hauling day, non stop - just using the water for hill climbing when the egt's warrant it.
I get about 10 MPG hauling the approx 9000+ lbs of boat on tandem trailer @ 60mph.
Another advantage of onboard water is trailer tyre fires.
Should you haul on a blown tyre and not notice it to the point it ignited with heat - it can set your boat on fire.
While I carry a couple fire extinguishers in the vehicle and a couple more in the boat - I also have a length of half inch hose behind the seat rigged with snaplock and nozzel, as long as my trailer. I have a snaplock plumbed to the rear bumper and can connect the hose - hit the cabin switch to the deckwash pump and if necessary hose down a tyre, thats self ingiting due to heat to the point it won't re-ignite using the on board water.
The extinguishers will control the tyre fire just long enough for me to get the water happening.
Its the water that, cools the tyre below re-ignition temps.
It's not just my own rig,I've used the water and hose before today to put out caravan and road train tyre fires at the roadside by just happening to be in the right spot at the right time.
Its a good safety feature to carry water in our desert country, just for survival reasons alone, but the fire reason is a second good reason and supplemental water cooling on long grades is also a benefit.
My kids use the water & hose to wash down after diving at the beach to keep sand outta the vehicle and salt off their scuba gear, I also plumbed the boat trailer with it's own irrigation system so I can freshwater wash down the trailer after launching in the ocean before parking it up with the flick of the dash switch.
I don't know why more folks don't add a few water tanks to their trucks...I carry at least 67 gallons of diesel, 55 gals of water on every trip.
Beats me why more folks don't - probably never lived in the desert I guess.
Waters the elixir of life - like amex gold never leave home without it!
Waters probably part of the answer to your neighbors haulage problem but bye the sounds of it you just can't help some folks who don't want to know.
Cheers!