Good oils do not cause problems, especially top tier oils like redline, amsoil, etc.
I would worry more about driving habits damaging the car then worrying about a top tier oil damaging my car. Just use the best oil you're willing to buy, in the correct grade, with the right oil filter and change it at the right OCI and worry not.
Chances are it isn't oil failure that will do your car in, for me it's always been transmissions that break down before my cars engine breaks.