I just think it depends on so many things, but when you weigh price to mileage...I do think sometimes it’s worthwhile to go maybe a little higher in mileage for a well cared car to save 5-6k dollars.
It really just depends on price and condition. A well cared for car with 120,000 miles vs a not so well cared for car with 90,000 miles, is something worth comparing...comparing price and needed repairs, because often times that 90,000 mile car may need some major services at that point (tranny, coolant, plugs, some suspensions components) and yet be asking 5-6k more than the car at 120,000 miles that has already had all those services and repairs done.
And things like tires and brakes are huge too, because that could be $1,500 out of your pocket. And then there’s paint, the 120,000 mile car could be all highway and very little city abuse.
So yes, I would prefer the lower mileage car but it really depends on many factors, most importantly price and condition.