I’ve never cross-threaded a spark plug. Not one.100% of cross threaded spark plugs occur during the process of installing them.
Don't over-maintain something, it's as risky (or riskier) than neglect in some cases.
But in deep wells, I use a bit of 3/8” fuel hose to start them. If they’re not perfectly aligned, the fuel hose slips.
Foolproof.
The only risk to over maintaining something, is to your wallet. You’re thrown away money replacing stuff that isn’t worn out.
There is a separate, unfortunately, common, risk, and that is “hacks”, who cut corners, use power tools inappropriately, and do stupid things like crossing spark plugs, as a result.