Hello

[AirgunSavant]

Can we talk???

My mother started calling me " Love"
Thank you love.......... Goodbye love.................

She got that nonsense from my nut job aunt Dottie....
Now aunt Dottie in case you wanted to know looks exactly like Elvis Presley three days after his death.

I threatened to cut off my elderly mothers oxygen and take away her wheelchair and that didn't work.
She still calls me love and I'm about to blow a gasket

Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[beanoil]

Someday.....
You are going to wish you could hear that one more time.

 

[Dorian]

If she is coherent, start calling her Dottie. She might get the picture. LOL!

 

[Quattro Pete]

Originally Posted By: AirgunSavant
She still calls me love and I'm about to blow a gasket

Take your meds, and find yourself something more important to worry about.

 

[AirgunSavant]

Originally Posted By: Quattro Pete
Take your meds, and find yourself something more important to worry about.

Somebody forgot to take their stool softener today...........

 

[Quattro Pete]

Thought it was already one of your meds.

 

[maverickfhs]

Originally Posted By: beanoil
Someday.....
You are going to wish you could hear that one more time.


^This...

 

[demarpaint]

Originally Posted By: maverickfhs
Originally Posted By: beanoil
Someday.....
You are going to wish you could hear that one more time.


^This...


Amen!

 

[JohnnyJohnson]

Mon has been gone 27 years it would great to hear her. She never left a forwarding address or her current phone number.

 

[Yah-Tah-Hey]

Change the way you react to what she calls you. It's not hurting you and it benefits her for reasons that may not be readily understood.If she wants you to be "love, then be love.And hope that what you are experiencing is the worst thing that will ever happen to you.

 

[Chris142]

Originally Posted By: beanoil
Someday.....
You are going to wish you could hear that one more time.
this is true.

 

[KGMtech]

Did mom ever call you late for dinner?

Tell her Love is EVOL spelt backwards.

 

[AirgunSavant]

Originally Posted By: demarpaint
Originally Posted By: maverickfhs
Originally Posted By: beanoil
Someday.....
You are going to wish you could hear that one more time.


^This...


Amen!


Nope- been the sole support system for my folks forever and the sole caretaker of my mother for two years after her illness.(I moved in)
I do it all.
I did the right thing as always and unlike others I'll miss them ( mother) but I will have zero regrets.
The post was humor- nothing bothers me in that respect.

 

[aquariuscsm]

Originally Posted By: maverickfhs
Originally Posted By: beanoil
Someday.....
You are going to wish you could hear that one more time.


^This...


^^This times two.

The things about your loved ones you’ll miss the most after they’re gone are the things that annoyed you.

 

[Yah-Tah-Hey]

Change the way you react to what she calls you. It's not hurting you and it benefits her for reasons that may not be readily understood.If she wants you to be "love, then be love.And hope that what you are experiencing is the worst thing that will ever happen to you.

 

[PeterPolyol]

Is your mother normally warm and affectionate? If not, I totally get how it could feel really unnatural, almost creepy.

 

[Bud]

My 97 year old Mother can call me whatever she likes.

 

[Kira]

aquariuscsm said, "The things about your loved ones you’ll miss the most after they’re gone are the things that annoyed you."

I disagree. I'm easy going and if someone does anything to annoy me IT'S A THING. I had an uncle who drank, was rude, was a user, was even a snitch. That soulless lump of dog's dirt couldn't die soon enough. He was evil.

I actually got the OP's humor angle. One Jersey boy to another....try calling her "Toots"!

Now, when people come up with weak jokes and quips AND THINK THEY'RE CLEVER OR FUNNY....that annoys me and I shouldn't let it.

EXAMPLE: Some sportscasters refer to the Minnesota Twins (Baseball Club) as "The Twinkies". It's not clever. It's not funny. It rings of disrespect and I have no dog in the fight.

Now where did I put my machete'.

 

[Nyogtha]

Originally Posted By: aquariuscsm


The things about your loved ones you’ll miss the most after they’re gone are the things that annoyed you.


I respectfully disagree IME also.

The things I miss most are truly the unspoken things that really had meaning.

 

[aquariuscsm]

Originally Posted By: Kira
aquariuscsm said, "The things about your loved ones you’ll miss the most after they’re gone are the things that annoyed you."

I disagree. I'm easy going and if someone does anything to annoy me IT'S A THING. I had an uncle who drank, was rude, was a user, was even a snitch. That soulless lump of dog's dirt couldn't die soon enough. He was evil.

I actually got the OP's humor angle. One Jersey boy to another....try calling her "Toots"!

Now, when people come up with weak jokes and quips AND THINK THEY'RE CLEVER OR FUNNY....that annoys me and I shouldn't let it.

EXAMPLE: Some sportscasters refer to the Minnesota Twins (Baseball Club) as "The Twinkies". It's not clever. It's not funny. It rings of disrespect and I have no dog in the fight.

Now where did I put my machete'.


I didn't mean bad stuff like drinking,abuse,etc. I mean little annoyances like goofy habits,idiosyncrasies,funny little quirks,etc. Stuff that made then "unique" I guess.