@RobbS - what vehicle and how old? Are the headlights yellowed/hazed? Are there options of getting HIR bulbs? There are options for 9006>H9 IIRC but no glare reducing tip on H9 I think. There are always true retrofit options of putting LED or HID projectors into your reflector housing but not the easiest or cheapest.
Mount up a set of extra lights,
aimed correctly maybe even lower in bottom grill. Something like the
Morimoto Sealed 3 which you can get in just low beam, just highbeam, or low and high. Many options depending if you are looking for distance (high beam only), back roads no traffic, maybe fog type for low cornering etc.
One of the problems with getting brighter bulbs like HIR or conversion halogen is often shorter life. It's a trade off.
DanielSternLighting covers a lot of this also. You can also get HIR bulbs from him, rebased in different styles.
Some vehicles like my old Explorer with 9004 bulbs just suck no matter what you try. Poor headlight pattern from factory, poor bulbs, anything you try will just glare more, worse for you and others. I ended up adding a set of Hella H4 headlights in snow plow housings, under bumper, aimed and then turned factory lights even a bit down. There are always options, just depends on $$ and initiative.
My old Corolla had really poor beam pattern from 9005/9006 plastic headlights. I replaced with factory Toyota H4 glass lights from Europe. Pun but seriously night and day difference. The European E-Code have many different standards than the US DOT.