What if you changed ATF every time you did front brakes? Every deceleration has a re-acceleration with resultant gear changes and extra wear.
If that sounds crazy, I used to wait until my hair was really shaggy then declared my sister needed an oil change. She'd cut my hair and I'd do her OCI, was the same interval.
The 2005+ Honda Odyssey prompts for ATF changes on the MM. I've seen 2007-2010's prompt for a change in as little as the low 30K mile range. We're talking self-destructing Hondas though!