We micromanage as well.
ABRP provides information about what is available near the charging station (restaurants, which is code for bathrooms for example), charging prices (which sometimes vary considerably within a few blocks), the number of chargers and the charge rate at a station, and information on recent charging experience. We found that one Supercharger that our Tesla nav system was determined to use had been closed down by noting the lack of recent charging experience on ABRP. A closed Supercharger is not a good thing if you're really stretched for distance in an area having few Superchargers. Based on our suspicions we phoned the shopping center a few days ahead of time and found out that the Supercharger had recently closed and then located another Supercharger about 10 miles away, once again using ABRP.
On another occasion the Tesla nav system wanted us to veer off our route to a 150 kW charger, when there was a 250 kW charger with more outlets right on our route in a few blocks. I never understood that one.