I agree, it's hard to describe the added level of control to one not 100% familiar with manual driving. For one, the fact that you're driving in a given gear, limits your speed range; for example, say I'm in 3rd gear on a city road, with throttle at a normal range my speed will be pretty much limited to the range of 10 mph to 30 mph (70+ mph if engine is rev'd to the point I'd have to be deaf not to hear it). On the other hand if I'm in an automatic and don't watch the speedometer I could find myself going 45 mph without really noticing it.
I would say there are pro's and cons to manual, but mostly pro's
There's added control of engine braking and standby power in curves. There's some loss of control by the added time it would take to shift into the right gear if unexpectedly you all the sudden needed it (in an auto just floor it and the computer jerks you in the right gear in an instant). Then, a big one for me, there's the added control and extra fun of being able to hypermile.
I never had much luck with Automatics with manual options. It's just not the same as a manual and I loose track of the gear I'm in; use it for engine braking occasionally, but it's a real pain in. It would have to be a 5 sp shift box at the least.
Originally Posted By: weebl
After getting past the learning curve, I found myself really enjoying driving manual, even if stuck in traffic. I had an extra degree of control I never did with automatics - remaining in lower gears as I work through curves or know I'll need the oomph of a lower gear in the city, not unncessarily downshifting, and most importantly, being forced to really feel the road surface condition and watch traffic so that I can choose the best gear. Definitely it improves safety and reduces driver inattention.