As redspider said...tsb's aren't meant for you. That's why you will never be notified. They are specific instructions for the technician doing the repair and they have nothing to do with the owner of the vehicle. You seem to be confusing these with a "recall".Maybe they'll split the cost, which I would agree to. Either way, I believe they are at least partially liable as they should notify vehicle owners of the bulletins when they're released, if the vehicle's VIN is one of the affected ones. Mazda never notified me at all...how else was I supposed to know there was a TSB for my vehicle?
They absolutely will not repair it at half their cost when there is no problem with your engine at this time. I worked for several years as a service advisor at a dealership. I promise you, they won't even consider what you're trying for.
Also I bet it's a very low rate of failure, probably nowhere near the 2.0 ford EcoBoost failure rate.