MPG issue is there when considering several million vehicles whether the individual notices it at all. Its the automakers way of squeaking by CAFE. They call it 'engineering'. Too bad they can't make lighter more efficient vehicles, or sell some with diesel engines.
So, if you want more protection, definitely use that M1 75w140 gear oil. If you want, you can thin it out with the 75w90. At 25cst, M1 isn't soooo thick. Its only a point over the 110wt spec and should shear into a 110 weight soon enough.