I tried again this afternoon and the longer I wear them the more frustrated I get. I am back to using the 1.50 $5 readers I have been using for the past 10 years. I will look more into what lense material I have. The brand of glasses frames are Hoya.
It's amazing how lack of knowledge opticians at optical shops have when educating someone like yourself. They don't say much and just push you through to what THEY want to sell. It would be like going into a tire shop and them slapping any tire on your car. Where there are different classes/types of tires, touring, grand touring, all-season, all-weather, performance, and the list goes on and on.
there are many different types of progressives, but as
@chemman explained, the material can have a very large impact on your eye to interpret what it is seeing and relay it to your brain.
Then there's the whole "high index", "mid-index" and regular.. that refers to the thickness of the lens. That can also affect how light enters the lens, goes through the material, then to your eyes. Then there are the "centers" which is where the sharpest point focusing the light into your eyes should be on the glasses lenses themselves. And of course the outer "base curve" which is the outside of the lens' curvature. When you combine all these different measurements/specifications to how your eye would adapt, you can end up with an eye strain headache and enough you want to smash the glasses!
It's not that easy to go get glasses, even single vision (no bi-focal, progressive, etc) done right. I can see why you don't want the progressives, who knows if the shop even made them correctly.
With all that said, I will say that I've had family members who did not like progressives at all. They (and yes they're still available) got no-line bi-focals. And it does matter the shape of the frame, you want one with a big enough area, you can even specify that the lab make a shape of the bi-focal area, from a circle, the entire lower part of the lens the up close portion, etc. I don't think opticians tell patients this because the opticians are clueless.
Thought I'd give you more info, you're not going crazy, you could just not like progressives. Or the people didn't make them right. with all the vision stuff I've experienced in life, I'd recommend something simple like no-line bifocals in cr-39 plastic, since it doesn't sound like your far vision prescription was that strong needing a different material (thickness)..
You might want to get your money back from the shop and tell them they never tried to explain or educate you on what options are out there.. if they act insulted, they're the problem, not you. Might want to look up google reviews for better optical shops in your area..