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It would be helpful for us to the know the application and operating conditions, etc. Will help us narrow the recommendations from everything under the sun, to appropriate choices.
I presume by "safest", you are inferring a "best" lube? Well - there really isn't a "best" lube that can be defined over the 'net. To be declared "best" (safest, winner, etc), you'd have to test several different contenders in your specific application, run them through many tens-of-thousands of miles, and thoroughly analyze each with UOAs and other means. That takes way more time, money and patience that most any BITOGer will put into the topic.
However, there are many good products, that are more than capable of protecting your equipment. Use a product that is spec'd for the correct application.
I cannot speak to the NV needs; not familiar with that unit. If you need a GL-5 lube, most any decent brand name will suffice. There are gear lubes that meet even higher standards, for performance. See my link here:
http://www.bobistheoilguy.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=3017738#Post3017738
If you need a GL-5 that is also for a manual tranny, make sure to get one that is MT-1 rated.
You can choose a syn, semi-syn, or conventional lube, based upon your expected OCI duration. Note that the J2360 spec, which defines a very strict performance standard, is met by many dino oils as well as a long list of syns.