Never seize - even the regular stuff - is not di-electric. However so as not to re-ignite that discussion - as pointed out, between the torque of thread contacts, the extremely thin film, and the fact your dealing with 20KV minimum, your unlikely to have any issues either way.
My big issue with di-electric is people start using it on other places, where there at 12V, and then it does matter. So I suggest di-electric doesn't really belong on a car. Its intended to seal electrical joints after termination in areas that they may get wet. It does work really well on battery terminals, but honestly given there is no real likelyhood of arc there anyway, so does almost any grease.
The plug OEM's don't want you using it due to the potential to over torque. As long as you compensate for that your fairly unlikely to have an issue.