Some of that would not have worked for me, a serious motorhead, my direction was always mechanical/engineering and not social. That is why I ended up here on BITOG, social network for technical types.
Here I am, fixing the front axle of my homemade, 2HP go-cart, at 8 years old. I let a friend drive it and he hit the curb. I got it fixed in short order, back together and running in no time. Took a little "thinking" on how to straighten the steel rod and get it installed again before dad came home.
Asking me to study ancient languages or give a presentation of poems from the WW-I era would not have resulted in success. Pointing one in the proper direction is essential. In the end, as I touch on retirement, I achieved all I could, and it's been wonderful.
FL510