Wow! so many awesome responses thank you all!! to answer, what engine it is going into: a 2018 Mitsubishi Outlander with a 2.4L i4 SOHC -- simple smallish japanese engine, doesnt burn oil or make any funny noises hehe. I've taken good care of it since new, i had a nice stash of oil for years...
I've not been here in a few years and had a stockpile of good ol PP 0w-20, which has run out. So now I haven't caught up on the latest standards and what's good these days. Any suggestions for a good 0w-20 available at normal retailers or amz (not boutique expensive stuff).
[edit: also my car...