Originally Posted By: Mr Nice
Originally Posted By: andrewg
Originally Posted By: beanoil
Teach young girls to be self sufficient. Have them understand that they need to make it in life on their own, and be happy in their own skin before sharing a life with another. So many young ladies today marry early, give up education, self worth and life, and end up never being all they can be.
From a very young age my niece was encouraged to be just that. Self sufficient and happy. Taught to earn respect, and when it's given treat it with value. Currently an RN/BSN, headed for a masters, gainfully employed, socking money away for the future, and buying a home. Wanted a child, found a donor, had said child and raising on her own. Teaching him the same values. He has dreams of being a pro ball player. Works on extra drills with the coach, and the only 10 year old I know with a fitness regimen. Good parenting can be taught and handed down. I wish I could get a few more parents I know on board.
Kind of sad that your niece didn't see a man as an important part of her own family/marriage as well as the significance of a father in a boys life. Not meaning to be intentionally rude but your story sounds cold....especialy when a father is labeled as a mere "donor".
I have to agree with you Andrew.
I agree with Andrew and Mr Nice here as well, big time.