Originally Posted By: 02SE
Here's the harsh reality: We are all fallible.
If you're going to ride, it's strongly advisable to become the best rider you can be, for your own safety and enjoyment of the experience. But there are no guarantees.
I'm reminded of Larry Grodsky, one of the biggest advocates of Motorcycle Safety and proper riding training. He was killed while riding when he hit a Deer.
Are Motorcycles dangerous?, absolutely. I've known many people that have died on a Motorcycle. The majority of people find them to be too dangerous. Knowing the risks, yet still having the desire to ride, I've spent all of my riding life trying to improve my riding skills.
People have all sorts of methods to cope with the stress in their lives. Some people drink, some do drugs, some climb mountains, some obsess over Motor Oil, whatever.
I ride.
That's a dark art all of itself.
Too many go straight from an incendiary event to the seat of their bike and kill themselves.
Not saying that's you at all. Just reminded me of that unfortunate situation.
Best advice I have for the OP is to always assume the worst. Be a truckload more observant of the stupid things people do, and why they do them.
One thing I do is play a game you could call "What Idiot Will Do What". I'm constantly watching other drivers and predicting their mistakes. I've gotten really good at the game, and it has saved my butt too many times. When driving with people, I continually get questions about how I knew something was going to happen. Just experience and deduction.
In the OP's situation, he definitely should have maintained lane presence. Don't ever make room in a lane. Some jackhole will try to whip around you, especially if you are turning and take the side off of you. She was not distracted. She tried to pull a funny one and it nearly cost you dearly.
Remember that as a scooter driver, you are a menace to society, even worse than a truck towing a trailer. People see you in front and they'll sacrifice their first born to get around you.
Finally, always call the police on people who display disregard for human life.