Any DOT 3 or DOT 4 brake fluid. Even Walmart DOT 3 is fine if you change it every 3 years like Honda says to do (you can probably get away with just flushing the fluid when you replace the pads and rotors). Valvoline DOT 3+4 is also popular since it often goes on sale for a good price. Castrol makes a good brake fluid, but it's hard to find in stores.
Power steering fluid must be of the special type for Hondas. You do not have to get it from the dealer, but whatever PSF you buy, make sure it says Honda or Acura on the bottle! Walmart has Prestone Honda power steering fluid for$2-something a bottle.
Pentofrost A3 is the exact same blue 50/50 premix you'd get from the dealer, but at a better price. The best price for it is AAP with a promo code. Another good alternative is Recochem OEM Blue from Pep Boys. It's a concentrate, and on sale for $14/gal (regular price is around $20). Peak Global Lifetime will probably work ok in your car, too (yellow color, similar to Zerex G-05). Zerex Asian is another option, very similar to Honda Blue, except it's pink and not blue.
ATF: Maxlife is good stuff and will work well in your Honda (and quite popular on here). Castrol Synthetic ATF is also good, if you can find it. Even Smitty's Synthetic ATF from Kmart would be fine.
