Originally Posted By: MotoTribologist
Marriage and starting a family are not financial decisions and if you are worried about what you are going to lose when it all goes south, then guess what, it isn't going to work out because you don't believe in it from the start.
If you are not marrying and having children for love, then you are marrying and having children for the wrong reasons. And if you are marrying for love, then none of those things matter.
Simply put, do what you want to do and don't do what you don't want to do.
I actually agree with you for the most part. However, all you can really control is YOU. Any man who enters marriage these days best be prepared for a worst case scenario. Again, I am not trashing all women but there are so many bad ones these days that I wouldn't dare risk it. Seen far too many men's lives destroyed by evil and conniving women all with the full assistance and cooperation of the legal system. Trust me when I tell you that if you ever get divorced it becomes very financial and even more so if you have kids. Also, the man will far and away take the largest hit.
Marriage and starting a family are not financial decisions and if you are worried about what you are going to lose when it all goes south, then guess what, it isn't going to work out because you don't believe in it from the start.
If you are not marrying and having children for love, then you are marrying and having children for the wrong reasons. And if you are marrying for love, then none of those things matter.
Simply put, do what you want to do and don't do what you don't want to do.
I actually agree with you for the most part. However, all you can really control is YOU. Any man who enters marriage these days best be prepared for a worst case scenario. Again, I am not trashing all women but there are so many bad ones these days that I wouldn't dare risk it. Seen far too many men's lives destroyed by evil and conniving women all with the full assistance and cooperation of the legal system. Trust me when I tell you that if you ever get divorced it becomes very financial and even more so if you have kids. Also, the man will far and away take the largest hit.
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