Originally Posted By: asand1
After thoroughly reading OP, I will say this. You need a higher output alternator for that sound system because you are draining the battery faster than you can charge it. Sitting for weeks at a time also allows the BCM to drain the battery. You are essentially deep cycling a starting battery. An auto-start device to start the car once a day would be cool, probably doesn't exist in an automotive form though.
According to this
http://batteryuniversity.com/learn/article/absorbent_glass_mat_agm AGM will cycle deeper and more times than Flooded cell batteries.
I have serious issues with that link/article. An automotive AGM SLI(Starting Lighting and Ignition) battery vs a Flooded SLI battery MAY have better deep cycle characteristics (I’m very skeptical of this) but the flooded starting battery is in no way designed to be a deep cycle and a distinction should be made. Additionally any SLI AGM, Gel or Flooded battery that is used in a deep cycle application will fail very prematurely.
Further more, AGM is intolerant of over overcharging, Gel is extremely intolerant of over charging. Both designs are also extremely intolerant of heat. In industrial battery field, (were I work), and in stationary field(where I have some expirence), these AGM & Gel batteries must not exceed 115 degrees f and voltages not to exceed 2.45 and 2.37 volts per cell (VPC) respectively for any period of time or permanent, irreversible damage will occur. This is for industrial and stationary batteries/cells/strings which are of an infinitely more robust design than automotive SLI.
In a comparison of AGM & Gel(both starved electrolyte designs) vs Flooded deep cycle batteries with regard to capacity, depth of discharge (DOD) and number of cycles before a battery is deemed to be spent, flooded batteries are far superior. In point of fact, the article has it backwards with respect to DOD and life. The starved electrolyte technologies can only be discharged to 50% in order to achieve the same number of discharge cycles as a flooded deep cycle battery which is discharged to 80%.
I personally would never consider these (AGM & Gel) batteries for an automotive application. They have there applications which they excel but again automotive SLI is not one of them.
In the industrial world the AGM & Gel have been an abysmal failure. Their net result was twice the cost, half the capacity and half the life.
Edit: I don't mean the above to be an attack on you asand1.