RoyalPurple Synchromax and Torco MTF are some choices.
Any ATF mentioning the Mercon-V spec can be used.
A tad thicker are your Redline MTL, JoeGibbs MTF, and Amsoil MTF. Being in Tx, you don't have as much cold weather to worry about. The added visc should help protect the transmission better. But, most crybabies driving manuals demand 'limpwristed shiftability'. I'd go thicker and live with the extra needed 3 minute warm-up.
Regardless of what fluid you choose, driving style dictates frequent intervals. And, maybe UOAs could help you decide which fluid wears the least since there is no BEST. I'd keep the intervals under ~15k or ~yearly.
Other options are ATF+4, BMW MTF-LT2 or LT3, and the synchromesh replacements(all those 75w80 fluids). With the added 'traction' needed by some CVT's, makes me wonder how well the CVTF's would function and shift in a manual.