If you want very good filtration with a long OCI, consider the Amsoil EaO filter line, and oils. I talked my neighbor into this plan, and he's very happy with the results on his Oddessey.
If you're not going to extend the O/FCI, then just run some decent brand name dino or group III, and a quality filter such as Wix or Purolator. The design and manufacture of vehicles over the last decade has proven that even the average car can go 250k miles before it wears out the drivetrain, with normal maintemance.
You're more likely to tire of the vehicle before you retire the vehicle.