The problem with trying to frame grid policy around rooftop solar is that at some point penetration will need to be curtailed for grid-tie systems, which dovetails into my next point:...
AC grid equipment, mostly large turbines, keep the grid stable. While HVDC is a good fit for long transmission hauls between disparate grids (intentionally not synching their frequency) that doesn't mean that HVDC is a viable, or even logical, option for grid construct.
AC has numerous benefits that
@JHZR2 has touched on, including the ability to be phased, stepped...etc. Most large generators (nuke plants, gas plants, coal plants, hydro dams...etc) are AC and play that critical role in providing inertia and stability to balance the loads coming on and off the grid.
I see no benefit in trying to reinvent the grid to better fit a technology that will never be able to provide the value necessary to make the investment worthwhile. The mild complication of conversion behind the meter for VRE installs is far better kept there then trying to make everything DC to avoid that IMHO.