I'm guessing that your 00 takes a PF59 and your Mom and Dad's 03 5.3's take a PF46. In 2003 GM quit using the PF59 and changed to a PF46 which is just a shorter PF59. I guess they figured that with 3000K OCI's that the PF46 provided sufficient filtering and they could save money by using a shorter filter.
Actually there was also a change from the PF44 to PF46(or the other way around). I'm not sure on the reason for this though, but it may be retroactive.