Where middle class families may have eaten out at before TGIFs, Applebees, etc

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Earlier today I came across this post on Facebook from Jim Pataleno (I have no idea who he is). His post did bring back memories of how local mom and pop restaurants were the standard for families occasionally eating out in the 1960s/1970s.

I have posted before- the key to the return of Mom and Pop restaurants is to bring a free market to healthcare. No way a Mom and Pop restaurant can afford healthcare insurance. Free market healthcare would also spurn huge growth in all small businesses. I digress.

Anyways- here is Jim Pataleno's post:

"Last night we went to dinner in a local Italian restaurant. It wasn’t fancy but it was still a step up from the neighborhood places we went to as kids.

Money was tight back then. My father worked two jobs to pay the bills. Sometimes he had a good day at the track, and he would treat us to dinner at a local Italian restaurant. These were storefront places with green awnings and neon signs in the windows. Many had started out as pizzerias and made the leap to family restaurants. Usually there was a plaster statue of a smiling pizza baker in the window. Every Brooklyn neighborhood had at least one. They looked pretty much the same...red checked tablecloths, candles in straw covered Chianti bottles, and signed pictures of Italian singers on the walls. They were like the place where Michael Corleone took out Sollozzo and the crooked cop in The Godfather.

They were usually family-owned and friendly. As a kid I remember feeling important when the Maitre ‘d greeted my father by name. The menu was not much different from place to place. Chicken Parm and Eggplant Rollatini were big sellers always served with warm bread and a side of spaghetti big enough for three. Most of them had a Prix Fixe deal that came with salad, entrée and dessert. There was rarely a wine list. They served jug red and jug white, poured into a carafe to add a touch of class. With dessert came coffee, either brown (American) or black (espresso). The owner would bring a bottle of inexpensive anisette and, with a grand gesture, leave it at the table.

The bill for four of us probably came to less than a decent appetizer on today’s menus. My dad had a little Ralph Kramden in him and tipped an extra dollar to show what a big shot he was. (My mom must have frowned knowing for that dollar she could have put a dinner on the table of pasta and lentils.) In an age when modern-day kids grow up eating in restaurants, they will never know what a big deal that was for us. There were no doggie bags then. We cleaned our plates and walked home in the cold night air, warmed by the good food in our bellies.


What I would give for one more of those family dinners. "

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As a kid in the early 60's we very rarely ate out. I LOVE authentic mom and pop diners and actively search them out. There's still a handful of gems out there, but they are getting fewer and farther apart to locate.

Thanks for the story!
 
I remember a couple of local places we would eat at occasionally. We usually ate at home. The places we had as kids were better than TGI Fridays and Applebee's. I almost always search out a family owned place before I'll go to a chain. Exception being Cracker Barrel. I like it there.
 
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We have a couple mom and pop restaurants in towns we go to during ski season, and some near home too as there is no mid range sit down chains within 20 miles.
We really only hit the sit down chain places for a social dinner that someone else picked the place. I don't mind them but at $30-40 pp they are a bit of a waste of money for my tax bracket...
 
I live in a good DuPage County suburb and there's more locally-owned one-location restaurants within a few miles of me than I can even remember, many of which have been there for decades. I just might pick up pizza from one of them tonight. 🍕
 
I live in a good DuPage County suburb and there's more locally-owned one-location restaurants within a few miles of me than I can even remember, many of which have been there for decades. I just might pick up pizza from one of them tonight. 🍕

I used to work at that Baker's Square off 75th and 355. Might have even handed you a pie in the early 2010s if you went there lol. (My first engine also threw a rod right there too)
 
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I live in a good DuPage County suburb and there's more locally-owned one-location restaurants within a few miles of me than I can even remember, many of which have been there for decades. I just might pick up pizza from one of them tonight. 🍕
I see very short videos on Facebook of a restaurant called Capri in Burr Ridge, IL. The owner of Capri "GG" seams very passionate about home cooking and not cheating his customers. If I ever make it to Burr Ridge, will definitely eat at Capri.

Capri Ristorante of Burr Ridge
Our full service restaurant, Capri Ristorante in Burr Ridge, was established in 2002 by Gigi. Capri Burr Ridge serves Mama Capri’s traditional family recipes as well as adding a contemporary twist on authentic Italian cuisine. Dine in, outside patio, full service lounge and private parties up to 15 in our Sinatra Room.

 
We always (rarely, but most likely location) went to Bonanza growing up. My dad was a big eater, and my sister and I could get by on the EXTENSIVE salad bar.

Looks like they have joined with Ponderosa now...

I remember that place as a kid. Last I can remember eating at Ponderosa was 2008 in Orlando. Growing up in Hartford, we went to a Polynesian place called Hu Ke Lau.

Also have memories of The Big E growing up. Think it still exists.

 
Grew up lower middle class in the 70's so eating out was somewhat special and I have great memories of the lunches and dinners w/ my parents and grandparents. York Steak House, Ponderosa, Arthur Treacher's Fish & Chips, KFC, McD's. BK and a local favorite Burger Chef which was usually after fishing w/ Grandpa. The great memories are of the time spent w/ family not so much the food:), but I happily didn't know any better then. There was also a Polynesian place that was a favorite destination...cannot remember the name.
 
I remember that place as a kid. Last I can remember eating at Ponderosa was 2008 in Orlando. Growing up in Hartford, we went to a Polynesian place called Hu Ke Lau.

Also have memories of The Big E growing up. Think it still exists.

Thanks for posting the article about Hu Ke Lau restaurant. Neat story and kind of a sad ending.
 
Grew up lower middle class in the 70's so eating out was somewhat special and I have great memories of the lunches and dinners w/ my parents and grandparents. York Steak House, Ponderosa, Arthur Treacher's Fish & Chips, KFC, McD's. BK and a local favorite Burger Chef which was usually after fishing w/ Grandpa. The great memories are of the time spent w/ family not so much the food:), but I happily didn't know any better then. There was also a Polynesian place that was a favorite destination...cannot remember the name.

I was born in 72 and grew up on a dairy farm in New England. Most meals were home but as a kid I remember Ponderosa vividly!!!!!!!! Saladbar and a "chopped steak" ..... Went many times with my grandparents.
 
growing up in the 80's and 90's( Born '79, graduated HS '98) whenever we were out of town, or traveling on vacation, dad would always go out of his way to stop at some local mom-n- pop type place.

I wish i could say i do the same thing, but I at least try to hit something we don't have here locally if i can, even if it is a chain.

it always bugs me when I visit my buddy in Columbus, and I want to go somewhere we don't have up here, and he just wants to hit the wendy's or taco bell around the corner from his house...

My GF and I have stayed at the same hotel in Dayton a few times, going to the Renaissance faire, etc, and by and large we've eaten at chains that don't have a presence in our hometown. so far it's been Long Johns, Chick-fil-a, Raising Caines, Big Boy, and the wood fired Pizza from Whole Foods. ( Currently our nearest Chick-Fil-a, and Caines are 45min - hour north, but they're building a Caines across the street from our work.)
 
Grew up lower middle class in the 70's so eating out was somewhat special and I have great memories of the lunches and dinners w/ my parents and grandparents. York Steak House, Ponderosa, Arthur Treacher's Fish & Chips, KFC, McD's. BK and a local favorite Burger Chef which was usually after fishing w/ Grandpa. The great memories are of the time spent w/ family not so much the food:), but I happily didn't know any better then. There was also a Polynesian place that was a favorite destination...cannot remember the name.
if you don't mind me asking, where did you grow up? there was a "famous" polynesian place in Columbus, OH, that shut down sometime in the 90's ( August of 2000, thanks Wikipedia!) i think, but, in name at least, some of their food lives on in the Freezer section at the Grocery store.

huh...never knew EXACTLY where it was... turns out i've been past it's site a 100 times, it's right around the corner from my buddy's house. last i was down there, we went to the Popeyes right next to the former kahiki site... the site is currently the Goodwill on Broad St. across from Lowes.

there are still 2 Arthur Treacher's open up around Cleveland, and if i remember correctly, they are planning on opening more.
when i was a boy, we used to frequent RAX. it was an Arby's adjacent( not related) roast beef chain. I think there's still a few in operation down into Appalachia. ( last one I saw was in Athens, OH in the early 2000's while my HS friends were attending Ohio University.
 
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Only went to the Kahika once in the 3rd grade, but it was an architectural loss. I have a video of the outside of the building somewhere.
if you don't mind me asking, where did you grow up? there was a "famous" polynesian place in Columbus, OH, that shut down sometime in the 90's ( August of 2000, thanks Wikipedia!) i think, but, in name at least, some of their food lives on in the Freezer section at the Grocery store.

huh...never knew EXACTLY where it was... turns out i've been past it's site a 100 times, it's right around the corner from my buddy's house. last i was down there, we went to the Popeyes right next to the former kahiki site... the site is currently the Goodwill on Broad St. across from Lowes.

there are still 2 Arthur Treacher's open up around Cleveland, and if i remember correctly, they are planning on opening more.
when i was a boy, we used to frequent RAX. it was an Arby's adjacent( not related) roast beef chain. I think there's still a few in operation down into Appalachia. ( last one I saw was in Athens, OH in the early 2000's while my HS friends were attending Ohio University.
 
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