Well, I have a set of the Michelin XCX/APT's on my Jeep Cherokke, and I think they are exceptionally quiet tires and they are wearing like iron. I'm less thrilled with their snow and particularly ice handling charecteristics, but in the dry and rain, they are fine.
I have Bridgestone Dueler AT Revo's on my F150, and they were pretty quiet when new, especially given the aggresiveness of the pattern and exceptional handling in all conditions except for mud (but hey, its an AT tire!). They have grown noisier with tire wear (I have nearly 40000 on mine), but they are wearing well, and I should easily get 60,000 miles out of them.