Been married almost 36 years with 2 kids and my wife was never able to be a SAHM because we always needed her income. With child care cost these days it might have been a possibility.
How about you?
There’s sooo many women wishing they could be a SAHM…. but realistically have to work a ful time job to help pay the mortgage and all the bills.
Lots of workplaces are dysfunctional and stressful. So being a SAHM is better for her and kids.
Edit:
I posted this 1 minute after JHZR2’s very good post.
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Always knew you were a great man sir bullwinkleMrs. Bullwinkle has been a SAHM since 1998, so, 24 years. Our youngest son was born with disabilities, and we couldn’t find decent daycare for him, so she has been home with him since he was 1 1/2. It’s been a lot of work, and a lot of financial sacrifice, but I’ve been lucky that she has been willing to do it. She volunteers now (with my disabled now adult son), so they’ve been able to give back in a way that I’ve always been too busy working to do.