I saw this urban myth getting pushed around last week and, worse, I got it from a retired USAF O-5 that should know better. His memory could more accurately have been shattered by the loathsome #metoo crowd for a long history of tomcat-ism (apologies Astro) that I've heard he himself talk about how badly he felt about it. To hear him tell it be could have been named Mr. Tailhook! But it was the culture of the time. Whiners are always using their newly discovered righteousness and applying it to the past which is just a stupid nonstarter from a logic standpoint. I didn't much care for his latter year politics, those guys on the Hill become more god-like every year they're there and stop hearing people outside the beltway. But McCain was and will always be a hero. His number came up and he lived through it. That's probably not a bad definition of a "hero" who survived now that I think about it.