That's a bit overly dramatic, but not unexpected when a bias exists. Tesla having a particular problem does not mean all EVs have a problem. The last thing a typical EV driver needs to worry about is the traction battery discharging by itself.
I don't care much about the Model 3 but I understand they have placed the 12V DC-DC convertor inside the battery casing so that it can operate either all the time or at least more frequently without having HV present outside that housing. Perhaps that results in a higher drain, who knows? It certainly doesn't affect owners of the many other EV brands.
In others that I'm aware of the DC-DC unit is separate and is only active when the main contactor inside the battery housing is closed. While parked the EV will use the 12V battery to handle telematics and other chores. The 12V battery is charged either when the traction battery is on-charge, or on a schedule, often either daily or every 4 hours. On older models of Leaf it's only when the car is powered-on for driving, so there are occasional issues with that design.
While the 12V battery is charged it's provided with a constant voltage of about 14.6 V, exactly as in an ICE car. Once the battery is full, very little current will flow and the main battery only has to support the operating overhead for the remainder of the period, perhaps about 200 W.
While driving, in the case of Hyundai at least, the 12V system is maintained at around 13.1 V to ensure that the 12V battery is not discharged for the duration.
In the same thread the Chevy Bolt is brought up and apparently it doesn't suffer the same eye-opening consumption that the Tesla does, so this does indeed to be a Tesla "quirk". I'm interested to see how the Mach-E compares.