Just went through similar — chose car this past summer, baby boy born 3 weeks ago. My choice stopped on 2018 Outlander PHEV. Caught it at the right moment in August, when wife’s car trade in value was at the peak(slightly dropped off peak, due to me thinking long should I get it now or wait a bit) and lots of lease returns coming in. Also got a color combo I wanted- white with dark brown leather interior. Most people seems to forget that Mitsubishi still exist. Take a look, new body style is somewhat controversial for Outlander, but PHEV is still previous body. Although it is over your budget, but if you do not mind 2-3 yo lease return, you can get top of the line GT trim for 35k and low miles. Also it is not overloaded with electronics, but just enough modern comfort features and traditional interior styling. AWD may come in handy, and 23 all electronic miles before it turns into usual hybrid,wont hurt either, if gas prices continue to climb.