Yeah, but then again replacing a cat is cheaper/less work than digging into the engine.
I love these old CR-Vs. They need to bring back a more utilitarian no-nonsense little SUV like this.
Could not agree more. The earlier CR-V's were great and provided reliable, comfortable service for many miles and years.
On your issue with oil burning, my thoughts are as follows (you may not like them):
1. That car should not be burning that amount of oil at that mileage.
2. A good number of folks say that the car is older and you should just learn to live with it, and add that quart every 900 miles, because "oil is cheap." I don't think of this as the "BITOG Way," and would only accept it, if I could know that the engine is worn and burns oil as a result. Either way, burning or consuming oil never improves without some kind of intervention. You indicate that you are looking at this as an "experiment," and in that vein would suggest that the question is "why."
3. In my experience, these honda 4 cylinder engines in the pre DI era, do best on factory recommended oils, which in this case is 5W20, full synthetic. Your father was using QS conventional for 110,000 miles. I don't think that helped matters, but admit that it is hard to see how it could have resulted in deposits -- and yet, you say that there is significant varnish inside the valve cover. If it's the case, the simplest solution, and your best case is to work on cleaning that engine. (If the piston rings are worn, or there are leaks, exhaust blockages, the only solution is to drive, add oil, until you give up, or go for major mechanical repair). I would note that you have moved to different oil "weights," which I don't believe makes sense to address this question. I think that the engine has gotten dirty, at least partially as a result of conventional oil usage, and if you can fix that, the oil consumption disappears.
4. I would want to get this engine clean. I would do Seafoam ahead of your next two oil changes. I would use Synthetic 0W20, or 5W20 henceforth, in GTX (or other syn Castrol), Maxlife, Pennzoil, Mobil 1, straight Mobil Syn or even QS flavors.
5. This presupposes that the engine is working well in otherwise.
Best wishes on this one. These cars want to run forever.