Skyship, LeakySeals, and Bladecutter....you make good points. I strongly agree that the problem is mechanical in nature.
I'm hoping that, now that I'm looking back at it...the valvetrain noise is due to the Nissan OEM oil. The noise was faintly there 50k miles ago and has continued to get worse until now. In that time period the only oil in that engine has been Nissan OEM.
Nissan employs some brilliant engineers I'm sure, so their oil is probably not junk. Actually, I found a VOA on their 5w-30 Ester Oil which is pretty impressive and has plenty of moly. Nissan puts this oil in the new sporty Maxima's and 370Z's. But I can't find anything on the conventional 5w-30.
VOA Here...
I am a hopeless optimist. I'm hoping a change in oil and viscosity will make a world of difference. Some cars run noisy on Mobil-1 but run great on Walmart oil, and vice-versa.
And BTW....although the MR18DE is a shim and bucket type of lifter design...there are no shims. The lifter sits directly on the valve. If there is excess clearance you need to buy a new lifter.....special order of course.
Pulling the valve cover off is not as easy as it sounds. Nissan wrapped the intake manifold over the valve cover. So you need to take the entire air intake system, throttle body, intake manifold, and drain the coolant...just to get to the top of the valve cover. Then I can change the spark plugs!
To take the valve cover off you need to remove the fuel rail and timing chain cover. I plan to do this when change the plugs since I'll be most of the way there anyways.
But for now....due to some comments, I'm on the fence about the Moly. User experiences say its great but rational thinking says it shouldn't be as great as it seems to be. Since adding moly isn't difficult I plan to put in some Rotella T6 fist and see what happens. Even if things improve I may add the moly just to see if makes it even better. We'll see.