Originally Posted By: Shannow
Originally Posted By: gathermewool
Oh, please. If you polled all men who want to have kids, I bet the majority would say they want at least one boy, if not all boys. I don't know many guys who cross their fingers, hoping for all girls.
Hmm, is that a strawman coupled with statistics made up on the spot ?
Maybe you should poll all men who are dis-satisfied with their own existence, or those who would like to be cloned into future space.
I think you missed the point of my post and blew it way out of context. I was simply expressing my opinion, as denoted by the, 'I bet' part of the statement. I apologize if what I posted came across as presumptuous. I only know how I feel and based my statement on conversations with male friends.
Also, make sure to note my second statement. Quoting only the first is misleading, IMO. My statement was NOT sympathetic to the OP's friend, but stating that having a boy may be important to many men, and not having a little boy, too, may be distressing. There may be women who are more than happy with all boys, but I'm sure there are a good number who pray for a little girl, too.
Finally, if having a boy was so important to him that it brought him to tears, then he probably should have considered adopting a baby (or any aged) boy.
To the OP: This is the interwebs, and every one has an opinion and wants to sound better than they are (sometimes,) so take all of these overly negative comments with a grain of salt. People tend to jump all over some one they've never met and know nothing about. People say he should be grateful that he has four healthy girls, but who are we to blame him for being upset about not having a boy. If he has had more kids than he originally planned in hopes of eventually having a boy, then it will be on him if having so many girls upsets him in the future. Again, he could have adopted. Regardless, just because he's upset about having all girls doesn't mean he'll in any way take it out on the girls or show them any less love than he has in his heart.