Is that really the fault of Realtors and mortgage brokers? Who is putting a gun to people's head and making them sign all those documents? Mortgage documents take about an hour to sign and of course the contract isn't valid if it's under duress. They're all bought by people of their own free will. Same as people who overpay for a car, do we really blame the car salesmen for selling them the car or do all the threads on here about people buying cars they can't afford aimed at the ones who can't afford the cars?
You walk into a car dealership, the car salesman is going to try and sell you a car. You got see a realtor, the realtor is going to sell you a house. You go see a mortgage broker, the mortgage broker is going to try and get you a mortgage. I don't recall anywhere in any class or continuing education which said anything about not selling a house to a particular person if they don't meet some specific criteria even if they qualify. As a matter of fact, it's quite drilled in that you shall not discriminate or you'll get in big trouble with the law so it's basically set up to sell houses, not talk people out of it. You don't make any money in a 100% commission job if people don't buy. Part of the job is to qualify the buyer though so you only deal with buyers who can afford to buy. You don't get into whether they should or not, then you'd be acting like a stock picker trying to pick winners and losers and bound to get in trouble if you don't pick correctly. If you don't pick, you can't get in trouble.
Fault? I said nothing about putting guns to heads, or being discriminatory. I talked about these people lining their pockets on imprudent transactions, and pursuading language about how fabulous something is.
Here are some pretty simple graphics that make the point about the million dollar house.
Yeah, you could argue things on this. Maybe one doesn’t have an HOA. Maybe taxes are lower (or in many cases much higher). But what might be more telling is this:
And that’s at 3.12%. So think about that for a second. A 30 year jumbo is no longer 3.12%… more like 5.6%
So that 20% down case (of which many aren’t… many people didn’t put that much down on much lower priced houses) that $432k of interest payments on a million dollar home becomes more like $750k or payments. Just on interest alone. Absolutely nothing to show for it, and working heavily against the “investment” for decades to come.
You said it’s a $200k-ish income household that can afford these. But can a $200k gross household, which probably brings in $150k net, before car payments, child care, cable tv, power, retirement savings, rainy day savings, etc. can they really afford to throw away nearly a million dollars in interest… not to mention the $12-24k+/yr on property tax (IOW, the first $1-2k of NET income one actually brings home).
Makes for a real estate millionaire on paper, but not after Uber-low equity, and mounting debts get rolled up. Maybe 10% of American households have take home incomes suitable (on paper with high percentages of take home going to mortgages) of million dollar houses. Of that group, half are below average and have no idea how to handle money. Wait… most in America don’t know how to handle money. But are magical real estate millionaires with massive debt and no real assets or savings to their names except what the claim that the house is worth… that they own a fraction of..
Google sw developers or whatever else are anomalies. The median household income in America in 2020 was $67k. Even if it’s gone up 10% since then, the million dollar home is not America. Yeah I get it that such folks wouldn’t pre-qualify. Still, There are lots of people stretching for these homes when times were good…. I know of some that are already looking to get out…
The proliferation of these giant super expensive homes isn’t prudent…. Just because people want them isn’t a good reason. We don’t give stuff to our kids just because they want it. It’s the makings of another crash. And look, I’m not intrinsically against million dollar homes, and certainly not against those who can afford them. I heartily dislike cheaply made million dollar McMansions that look exactly like, complete with poor build quality of a house that sells for a third of the price elsewhere.
I just think that there are a lot of imprudent decisions being made because of the mantra that for everybody, RE is such a good investment…. Yet people don’t really have their fiscal house in order… I think most folks would agree that buying a $70k truck on $100k income isn’t smart. Yet how many people do it? But all of a sudden when it’s RE people are savvy and making “investments”. Yeah it’s real. But buying overpriced stuff in overheated markets on the premise of an investment is just silly.
Though I’ll take a crash to buy more at reasonable valuations…