Thanks guys! This love hate relationship sounds a lot like my GN. Not what I want in a commuter. I like the thought of the diesel mileage and lots of torque down low, not requiring a lot of downshifting. But reliability has to be there and it sounds like VW may not have the best. What I want out of it is reliability, decent mileage, no ultra compacts, no hybrids, and something I can use on weekends that I'm not embarassed to drive but is cheap enough that I don't worry about where I park it and the inevitable door dings.
I'm trying not to use the TL anymore even though it's a great cruiser. It already has 77,000 on it. I have another year of payments and I want there to be something left of it when the payments are over. Just had the entire front of the car repained due to freeway damage. With the tires I have on it, I would be lucky to get 20,000 freeway miles out of them.