Originally Posted By: DuckRyder
So the expedition is "her car"?
Sounds like she is not a car person and won't take care of it like you would...
Keep it safe and dependable and accept that it is an appliance for her...it is going to get dings and dents and scratches and scuffs on the tires... and probably some broken stuff you'll have to fix...
You'll be happier...she'll be happier...
She doesn't want to do the "guy stuff" like check the tires and oil. At least I've got her doing the latter (finally). She started calling the Expedition "hers" after I bought the M5. Since the car is off-limits to her, I do understand her desire to brand the truck as "her" vehicle. The reality of course is that we DO share it, and usually without issue. It is "old dependable". However, that doesn't mean it has to look its age and mileage, LOL!
She does wash it, but I can't get her to wax it. We actually argued about that this weekend when I was waxing my car (I'm trying to get her more involved in this stuff instead of me having to do all of it). But on the other hand, if it makes a noise or she feels or notices something weird, she is good about immediately telling me. She just doesn't like telling me about the stuff that makes her feel stupid.... Like hitting things. But she DOES tell me, she just doesn't like to "own it", which is why she tried to spin the bush thing so that she didn't "hit" the bush, but rather it "brushed" the truck, LOL!
From the looks of this thread, some of you guys have REALLY lucked out, but most of us are experiencing some version of "this", which makes me feel a bit better
So the expedition is "her car"?
Sounds like she is not a car person and won't take care of it like you would...
Keep it safe and dependable and accept that it is an appliance for her...it is going to get dings and dents and scratches and scuffs on the tires... and probably some broken stuff you'll have to fix...
You'll be happier...she'll be happier...
She doesn't want to do the "guy stuff" like check the tires and oil. At least I've got her doing the latter (finally). She started calling the Expedition "hers" after I bought the M5. Since the car is off-limits to her, I do understand her desire to brand the truck as "her" vehicle. The reality of course is that we DO share it, and usually without issue. It is "old dependable". However, that doesn't mean it has to look its age and mileage, LOL!
She does wash it, but I can't get her to wax it. We actually argued about that this weekend when I was waxing my car (I'm trying to get her more involved in this stuff instead of me having to do all of it). But on the other hand, if it makes a noise or she feels or notices something weird, she is good about immediately telling me. She just doesn't like telling me about the stuff that makes her feel stupid.... Like hitting things. But she DOES tell me, she just doesn't like to "own it", which is why she tried to spin the bush thing so that she didn't "hit" the bush, but rather it "brushed" the truck, LOL!
From the looks of this thread, some of you guys have REALLY lucked out, but most of us are experiencing some version of "this", which makes me feel a bit better