Any opinion on this guy's opinion (and experience) ?
I remember seeing a video from Eric The Car Guy where he shows an engine with destroyed gaskets and puts it on the account of infrequent oil changes (more than 5k miles).
Yes, his "opinions" for all intent and purpose are fundamentally and fatally flawed at every level and most of the "mechanic level" analysis out there falls under the same umbrella. At best its an honest (yet unqualified ) opinion based on an anecdotal visual examination of a seal by those who are not qualified to conduct such an analysis and at worst just an ego driven rant for attention.
Let me defend and qualify my statement.
I do industrial forensics and gaskets/seals are a big part of it ( excluding mechanical seals for this discussion) and contract with almost every OEM for both so that's a very broad view and detailed information from them and their own testing.
You will see this analysis much more in industry than on the average car because the daily driver isn't subject to all the process conditions and chemicals gaskets/seals are in industry and the average oil isn't sometimes $200+ a gallon, The average car doesn't cost a few million and when its not running the average car doesn't cost production of $10k's per hour till its fixed and the repair bill ( total cost of failure) isn't $100k + per leak. ( that's assuming no environmental issue)
Point is we do quite a lot of it and have to be right when we submit the corrective plan.
Except in the rare case of "infant mortality" ( failing almost immediately) of a seal or gasket where there was a complete error in application due to temp, composition, chemistry or other factor- the actual oil and whatever properties it may have or even develop has virtually nothing to do with the failure of a seal or gasket. Even with most contamination ( defined as chemical)
Seals typically fail from
Abrasion ( particulate matter grinding, shaft abrasions etc.)
Fit (can be anything from dimension too small for proper seal tension, egg wear of shaft, misalignment creating a gap)
Installation (cocking a seal, damaging the garter spring/element)
Heat ( over time this will fatigue any polymer)
Dry Running ( a seal needs a bit of lube to live- its not a quality of the oil but the long term absence leading to abrasion and/or thermal fatigue)
Pressure ( usually seen as an extrusion but can be just blow by)
Normal end of life ( no polymer compound lasts forever with all properties intact)
I left off things like mechanical damage because those failure modes are usually random and external to the seal proper.
Basically the same for gaskets but gaskets are prone to set and need retorquing evenly, sometimes they saturate/delaminate ( even rot)
Sometimes a change to a much different fluid that's thinner or a temp change will leak at certain grades but not at others.
So, to say a gasket or seal failed due to an oil, extended oil change interval or some "normal to that application" contamination- while
POSSIBLE would be at the highest end of improbable and require significant supporting hard evidence to prove it.