If two tires have significantly more tread than the other two, the better tires should definitely be on the back.
I grew up with RWD and I prefer it in all conditions. I wouldn't say it's better in winter, but if you have decent weight distribution (not a 2WD empty bed pick-up), it's a lot more enjoyable! FWD is more forgiving in most situations, but if snap-oversteer occurs because the back tires lose it when the front tires gripped, it's about as far from forgiving as it gets. Anyone who has played with the e-brake on a slippery day knows that the back end can whip around pretty quickly. In my opinion, it's far less forgiving than the throttle-induced oversteer that often occurs with a RWD, but it can be avoided by keeping decent tires on the back.