I owned a 2021 Honda Pilot for 3 years, traded in last August. The oil never had any scent of fuel even with a few very short winter trips done. The last oil change interval was ~8,400 miles with 20% on the oil life meter, no scent of fuel, oil looked dark amber, not pushed too far.
My MDX was the first time they went DI on the J35. I would consider my wife's use of it darn near severe service with short trips of under 3 miles in temps below zero. No noticeable dilution, although I run 0W-30 for some overhead just in case.