I'm following advice given to me in my previous post, "Last Will and Testament. Went and visited my dying mother after a few years of almost zero contact. Had to seek over to see mom since my mom and aunt feel there would be a physical confrontation, and mom is living at my brother's house now. Brother is mad as heck at my sister and I for so little contact with my mom.
I told my mother that I do not want to fight with my brother, told her that my brother and I are far too old to be going at it at our age, brother is soon to be 39 years old and I'm 41 years old. Mom agreed I was right about this but, I still get the feeling that she wants a confrontation. Had to get going after and hour and a half because brother was coming home to help mom with here medicine.
I don't know how to get through to my brother, all he has ever done in the past is yell and threaten me with violence. Is it worth writing a letter to him? Wife says that I should not have to justify myself to my brother by doing this. Can't phone him because it will end up like before, he just will not listen to reason or explaination. Theres is alot more to the whole situation than I can write here.
I truely want peace between my brother and I but, it looks very sad at this time. Any suggestions?
I told my mother that I do not want to fight with my brother, told her that my brother and I are far too old to be going at it at our age, brother is soon to be 39 years old and I'm 41 years old. Mom agreed I was right about this but, I still get the feeling that she wants a confrontation. Had to get going after and hour and a half because brother was coming home to help mom with here medicine.
I don't know how to get through to my brother, all he has ever done in the past is yell and threaten me with violence. Is it worth writing a letter to him? Wife says that I should not have to justify myself to my brother by doing this. Can't phone him because it will end up like before, he just will not listen to reason or explaination. Theres is alot more to the whole situation than I can write here.
I truely want peace between my brother and I but, it looks very sad at this time. Any suggestions?