Agree.
TBH our 2014 odyssey struggles to make EPA highway mileage. A recent road trip saw our best ever, 29.7 MPG, but around town in normal use we see below EPA city typically, and my wife and I are not hard drivers with fast acceleration and excessive braking.
A hybrid minivan would be ideal, and 36 MPG from the sienna is pretty phenomenal But there's not enough money in trading in a 75k mile Odyssey that is perfect.
My Accord hybrid has been great, and driving carefully in commuting scenarios I can see in excess of 60 MPG despite EPA rating of 47. The things that get it are the use of heat (Im not a big heat user even in the winter), and highway operations. Highway seems to get to a minumum efficiency point around 75 MPH, and Ill see 41 MPG there. Interestingly if on a faster road like down south or out west, I have seen the MPGs creep back up to mid 40s.