No one has addressed any of my 3 selections. They have only offered their own personal choices, and many not taking into account the application conditions I described in my OP. Sorry people feel this way, but I haven't seen a single reply mentioning one of my selections. All I see is they are "wrong". Well, ok, then look at the chart above where Ford explicitly approves of the vis range.
If one doesn't know the latest data, that's fine. Just don't respond.
So, what exactly are your 3 presented oils? Not that I really care as a friend of mine owns two diesel trucks and uses Rural King 10w30 HDEO without issue. Sounds like you're being picky and just flat out ignoring great folks advice.
Have a great life